Nolan Fan

Integrative Coach & Consultant

Couples

I work with committed couples to deepen connection, navigate challenges, and build relationships grounded in clarity, resilience, and purpose.

Our work might look like: a marriage or pre-marriage audit; shifting recurring arguments to address underlying needs; bridging the gap between values and daily behavior; replacing frustrating patterns with new ways of connecting; deepening intimacy and shared purpose; or something completely different.

How It Works

Free Consultation Call

We’ll have a short, thirty-minute conversation to break the ice and discuss:

  • What’s stuck in your relationship (e.g., constant bickering, emotional distance).
  • Your vision for the relationship.
  • Whether we’re a good fit.

To schedule your free consultation, email me at nolan@nolanfan.com. Include:

  • Your names, location, and relationship context (e.g., “together for ten years, parenting teens”).
  • What you’re looking to get out of our work together.

Exploratory Session

We’ll meet in person or on video for an initial ninety or one-hundred-twenty-minute session where we’ll explore your unique needs, goals, and challenges in detail:

  • What’s working and the strengths to build on.
  • What’s not working and the patterns you’re tired of repeating.
  • Goals for our work together.

Next, we’ll craft a schedule designed to get you where you need to be.

(Some dynamics may need one or two more exploratory sessions.)

Custom Schedule

We’ll design a fixed-term schedule that meets your specific goals, needs, and working style. It will include:

  • Sessions every one to three weeks.
  • Calls to check-in or troubleshoot.
  • Assignments and exercises between meetings.
  • Half-day or full-day workshops for deep-dives and involved processes.

(I do not offer open-ended, per-session schedules. Read about why here.)

Example Schedule: For a couple who act like roommates and are looking to revitalize connection and intimacy, we have a ninety-day schedule that includes six sessions, five calls, one workshop, and weekly assignments.

budget

Fees vary based on your schedule (see Custom Schedule). For a ninety-day schedule, you can expect a total fee around 22,000 – 25,200 HKD (2,800 – 3,200 USD).

(For couples committed to coaching, but who are currently unable to afford my standard fees, read about my commitment to price accessibility here.)