I work with committed couples to deepen connection, navigate challenges, and build relationships grounded in clarity, resilience, and purpose.

Our work might look like: a marriage or pre-marriage audit; shifting recurring arguments to address underlying needs; bridging the gap between values and daily behavior; replacing frustrating patterns with new ways of connecting; deepening intimacy and shared purpose; or something completely different.

How It Works

Free Consultation Call

We’ll have a short, thirty-minute conversation to break the ice and discuss:

• What’s stuck in your relationship (e.g., constant bickering, emotional distance).
• Your vision for the relationship.
• Whether we’re a good fit.

To schedule your free consultation, email me at nolan@nolanfan.com. Include:

• Your names, location, and relationship context (e.g., “together for ten years, parenting teens”).
• What you’re looking to get out of our work together.

Exploratory Session

We’ll meet in person or on video for an initial ninety or one-hundred-twenty-minute session where we’ll explore your unique needs, goals, and challenges in detail:

• What’s working and the strengths to build on.
• What’s not working and the patterns you’re tired of repeating.
• Goals for our work together.

Next, we’ll craft a schedule designed to get you where you need to be.

(Some dynamics may need one or two more exploratory sessions.)

Custom Schedule

We’ll design a fixed-term schedule that meets your specific goals, needs, and working style. It will include:

• Sessions every one to three weeks.
• Calls to check-in or troubleshoot.
• Assignments and exercises between meetings.
• Half-day or full-day workshops for deep-dives and involved processes.

(I do not offer open-ended, per-session schedules. Read about why here.)

Example Schedule: For a couple who act like roommates and are looking to revitalize connection and intimacy, we have a ninety-day schedule that includes six sessions, five calls, one workshop, and weekly assignments.

budget

Fees vary based on your schedule (see Custom Schedule). Ninety-day schedules start at 25,000 HKD (3,190 USD).

(For couples committed to coaching, but who are currently unable to afford my standard fees, read about my commitment to price accessibility here.)